It's ok not to be okay. The calendar flips to November, and suddenly life is wrapped in glittering lights, cheerful music, and traditions that seem to whisper, “Be happy.” But when you’re grieving, whether from the death of a loved one, a divorce, a breakup, a job loss, or a fractured friendship, the holidays can feel overwhelming. Grief doesn’t rest, and the pressure to be festive can feel crushing. Here is a compassionate guide to managing grief, setting boundaries, and finding gentle...

Even in the closest marriages, loneliness can quietly creep in. You can share a home, a bed, and even a life—but still feel worlds apart. If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking, “How did we get here?”  or “Why do I feel so alone when I’m not alone?” —you’re not broken. You’re human. The Hidden Ache of Emotional Loneliness Loneliness in marriage doesn’t always mean the absence of love. Often, it’s the absence of connection . Perhaps conversations have become more about logistics: bills,...

After twelve years of marriage, a wife gathered the courage to share her heart with her husband. She wasn’t angry or dissatisfied; she wanted their marriage to flourish. She expressed her desire to celebrate his accomplishments as he has celebrated hers. However, to celebrate him, he would need to step out on faith and engage in activities that would allow her to honor him. She also wanted to cultivate spiritual intimacy. This included attending church regularly, reading books about marriage,...